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Jan 21

46m 8s

#81: What anxiously attached people need...

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In this episode we explore what anxiously attached people really need in relationships to thrive & develop a more secure attachment pattern over time.

Whether you are currently dating or are in a relationship, this episode will help create clarity around what to look for in potential partners or what to create more of in the dynamic you are in.

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