Do you feel as though you constantly need validation, reassurance or connection with your partner? If so, this episode is for you! Learn where you learned these ways of relating, how it plays out in your relationships and steps to becoming more secure!
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Your Needs Are Valid...And So Are Their Limits
Are you asking for too much or asking someone who can’t give you what you need? In this episode, we explore the difference between valid needs and unrealistic expectations, how to ask without pressuring, and when to accept someone’s limits or walk away. Your needs matter. So does ... Show More
12m 38s
Oct 5
What Each Attachment Style Sacrifices to Stay in a Relationship
What does your attachment style cause you to sacrifice in order to keep a relationship?In this episode, I explore how anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant attachment can influence what we tolerate, give up, or mistake for “healing” in relationships, and how to tell the differe ... Show More
14m 1s
Sep 22
Dating Securely After Loving an Avoidant
Dating after loving an avoidant can change the way you experience connection, chemistry, and even security. In this episode, I’m sharing what I’ve learned personally and professionally about dating more securely—without letting old attachment patterns choose for you.Ready to go d ... Show More
15m 45s
Jun 2025
How To Stop Needing Constant Reassurance
<p>This episode is for the anxious girlies who look like they have it all together (you’ve got degrees, deadlines, and the job)… but on the inside, you’re checking the relationship vibes like it’s your full-time job.</p>
<p>We’re talking:</p>
<p>✨ Why your brain craves constant r ... Show More
21m 18s
Mar 2025
Lessons I’ve Learned For Better Relationships
<p>Do you find that it’s confusing to know exactly what your partner wants? If your answer is yes, then this is the episode for you. </p><p>Welcome to Decoding Attachment Style, the podcast where we dive deep into the art of building healthier, more fulfilling connections - with ... Show More
32m 7s
Mar 2023
say goodbye to ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT
You asked and I delivered, this has been my most requested episode topic. In this episode, I teach you the step-by-step process of going from anxiously attached to being confidently secure in your relationships. It is time for you to take them off the pedestal, learn to self-soot ... Show More
27m 44s
May 2023
63: Why reassurance seeking is not free (and what to do instead)
In this episode, I share the costs of reassurance seeking, the act of trying to find certainty about your relationship. If you tend to constantly be searching for the perfect piece of advice (even from me!), you're addicted to the illusion of certainty as a means of feeling safe. ... Show More
39m 4s
Apr 2023
how you can HEAL your attachment style for healthy relationships | anxious & avoidant to SECURE
This covers anxious attachment, avoidant attachment and fearful avoidant/disorganised attachment, understanding all 4 attachment styles, how to heal them and achieve a secure attachment style so that you can get and maintain healthy loving relationships, and STOP SELF SABOTAGING ... Show More
32m 1s
Jun 2025
#53: From Anxious to Secure: 5 Indicators of Healing
In this episode, we explore real-life signs that you're moving from anxious to secure attachment - even if you're still a work in progress. Healing anxious attachment isn't just about feeling less anxious; it's about changing how you show up in love, how you relate to yourself, a ... Show More
41m 28s
Aug 2024
When Will I Be Enough? (Coaching Session)
<p>What does it mean to be “enough” to have a relationship? In this episode, Joe coaches a woman grappling with feelings of inadequacy in relationships. Through their conversation, they uncover her underlying desire for control and fear of self-abandonment. Together, they examine ... Show More
35m 47s
