Do you feel as though you constantly need validation, reassurance or connection with your partner? If so, this episode is for you! Learn where you learned these ways of relating, how it plays out in your relationships and steps to becoming more secure!
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Jun 26
The Ugly Truth About Healing Attachment Wounds
You finally meet someone who's consistent, emotionally available, and genuinely cares about you... so why does your nervous system want to run?In this episode, I break down why healing attachment wounds often feels more uncomfortable before it feels secure. We'll explore what's h ... Show More
13m 25s
Jun 14
What God Taught Me About Secure Attachment
In this episode, I share what God taught me about secure attachment, why people will inevitably let us down, and how finding security in something greater than ourselves can transform the way we experience love and relationships.💛 Just getting started? Check out the Secure Self ... Show More
8m 2s
Jun 10
Lessons From Dating an Avoidant and an Anxious Partner
In this episode, I share the lessons I've learned from dating both avoidant and anxious partners, how each relationship highlighted different areas for growth, and why the goal isn't hyper-independence or over-dependence—but healthy interdependence.If you enjoyed this episode and ... Show More
13m 27s
Jun 2025
How To Stop Needing Constant Reassurance
<p>This episode is for the anxious girlies who look like they have it all together (you’ve got degrees, deadlines, and the job)… but on the inside, you’re checking the relationship vibes like it’s your full-time job.</p>
<p>We’re talking:</p>
<p>✨ Why your brain craves constant r ... Show More
21m 18s
Mar 2025
Lessons I’ve Learned For Better Relationships
<p>Do you find that it’s confusing to know exactly what your partner wants? If your answer is yes, then this is the episode for you. </p><p>Welcome to Decoding Attachment Style, the podcast where we dive deep into the art of building healthier, more fulfilling connections - with ... Show More
32m 7s
May 2023
63: Why reassurance seeking is not free (and what to do instead)
<p dir="ltr">In this episode, I share the costs of reassurance seeking, the act of trying to find certainty about your relationship. If you tend to constantly be searching for the perfect piece of advice (even from me!), you're addicted to the illusion of certainty as a means of ... Show More
39m 4s
Apr 2023
how you can HEAL your attachment style for healthy relationships | anxious & avoidant to SECURE
This covers anxious attachment, avoidant attachment and fearful avoidant/disorganised attachment, understanding all 4 attachment styles, how to heal them and achieve a secure attachment style so that you can get and maintain healthy loving relationships, and STOP SELF SABOTAGING ... Show More
32m 1s
Jun 2025
#53: From Anxious to Secure: 5 Indicators of Healing
In this episode, we explore real-life signs that you're moving from anxious to secure attachment - even if you're still a work in progress. Healing anxious attachment isn't just about feeling less anxious; it's about changing how you show up in love, how you relate to yourself, a ... Show More
41m 28s
Aug 2024
When Will I Be Enough? (Coaching Session)
<p>What does it mean to be “enough” to have a relationship? In this episode, Joe coaches a woman grappling with feelings of inadequacy in relationships. Through their conversation, they uncover her underlying desire for control and fear of self-abandonment. Together, they examine ... Show More
35m 47s
