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Jan 5
"My Ex Moved On Like I Never Existed." Let's talk about it...
You probably went through a breakup and was left wondering how your ex could appear like you never existed. This episode helps you to appreciate and understand what might be going on in the mind of your avoidant attached ex just after breakup - in case you're wondering -how can t ... Show More
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Let's unpack one of social media's most pervasive attachment theory takes: the idea that avoidants coldly "discard" people the moment intimacy develops. But what if this narrative is not only oversimplified - it's actively harmful? In this episode, we explore how reducing complex ... Show More
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An avoidant shares her confusion at being heavily pursued by a man she didn't know, only to start appreciating the attention before he started to pull away. In this episode we discuss why avoidants are careful when entering new relationships, how they process relationships that j ... Show More
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Dr. Rick and Forrest answer listener questions focused on navigating relationship challenges. They explore how to rediscover yourself after a codependent relationship, distinguish between healthy and unhealthy desires, maintain friendships after romantic feelings emerge, overcome ... Show More
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Today, Jay reframes how relationships are built—not through surface-level attraction or blind chemistry, but through clarity, communication, and intentionality. He presents nine transformative questions that often go unasked in modern dating, not because they’re unimportant, but ... Show More
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When you're in a relationship shaped by attachment insecurities, the questions are complex, urgent, and deeply personal. In this episode of Decoding Attachment, host Annalisa Bahadur tackles your real-world dilemmas with clarity and compassion, offering actionable strategies for some of the toughest dynamics. We're moving beyond theory and into the trenches ... Show More
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you are the partner of someone with relationship anxiety, this episode is for you.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you have relationship anxiety and want to be able to ask your partner for more intentional suppo ... Show More
<p><strong>Are You Stuck in Black-and-White Thinking? </strong></p><p><strong>Let’s Talk About It.</strong></p><p>If you struggle with <strong>intense emotions, fear of abandonment, or difficulty navigating relationships</strong>, you might also feel trapped in <strong>rigid thin ... Show More
