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May 2023
24m 41s

Unhealthy Vs. Healthy Ways Attachment St...

Jessica Da Silva, LMFT
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What you’ll learn in this episode: -Why we have difficulty communicating our needs. -The consequences of not communicating our needs directly. -How each attachment style communicates their needs. -Healthier ways of communicating your needs to create relationship satisfaction. ———— 1:1 Attachment Coaching: https://jessicadasilvacoaching.com/coach-with-me-2 ... Show More
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