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Aug 2024
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Ep. 250 - What’s the best way to breakup

Breakup Coach Dorothy
About this episode

Breakups are never easy, whether you're the one ending the relationship or on the receiving end. In this episode, we tackle the challenging task of breaking up with someone with intention and clarity. Learn five powerful journal prompts and three fundamental truths to guide you through this difficult decision. These tools will help you identify the best approach tailored to your unique situation, ensuring you handle the breakup with compassion and respect. Discover how to communicate your feelings honestly, consider your partner's emotions, and maintain your self-worth throughout the process. Click to listen and gain the insights needed to navigate breakups with integrity and intentionality!

Want to know when to leave a relationship? Listen to the podcast episode: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/2023/07/18/when-to-leave-a-relationship/

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