Welcome back to Fly to Freedom. In this month’s Julia & Vics Q&A, we answer your powerful recovery questions — from fears about quasi-recovery to coping with brain chemistry changes, rebuilding family trust, and navigating oedema, weight gain, and family comments.
You’ll hear raw, compassionate answers rooted in lived experience — the messy parts, the scary parts, and the hopeful parts. Whether you’re at the start or further along, these conversations show you that recovery is possible for everyone.
[03:15] Quasi vs. Full Recovery – Can coaches tell who will fully recover? Why commitment and openness matter more than prediction.
[08:40] Brain Chemistry – Why suicidal thoughts, depression, and appetite loss can hit when you start eating more, and how to move through it.
[17:55] Food Perfectionism – Fear of making the “wrong” choice, and how to let food be messy, not perfect.
[23:10] Family Trust – How to rebuild relationships and feel proud of yourself again after painful years.
[32:05] Planning Challenges – Should challenges be scheduled or spontaneous? Why the answer is both.
[37:45] Oedema – Julia’s lived experience of extreme water retention, why it happens, and how to cope.
[46:20] Weight Gain Blame – Reframing “healthy” and “unhealthy” foods, and trusting your body.
[55:30] BMI Fears – Why BMI is irrelevant, why food thoughts count as hunger, and how to keep going.
[01:05:15] Family Comments – Coping when loved ones make thin-obsessed remarks, and why inner child work matters.
[01:15:10] Blood Tests – Why results may look “normal” despite restriction, and why that doesn’t mean you’re okay.
[01:25:40] Restricting to “Check” Metabolism – Why this cycle fuels mistrust, and how to break it.
[01:32:50] Fear or Excitement – How fear can transform into courage, and why borrowing belief helps.
[01:40:05] Making Recovery Easier – Would we do it differently? Why going all in was the fastest way through.
[01:47:15] HSPs – Why many with eating disorders are highly sensitive people, and how to see it as a strength.
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