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Aug 11
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(Matt Monday): The 4 Stages of Mixed Sig...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
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Mixed signals can leave us feeling anxious, confused, and questioning our worth—whether it’s in the early stages of dating or deep into a relationship. In this epsiode, we break down the four stages of mixed signals, from the “pen pal phase” to the “relationship drift,” and show you how to navigate each one with confidence.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of overthinking someone’s inconsistent behavior, this video is for you . . . because the right person won’t leave you guessing.

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