Confusion creates a lot of trouble both before and after the relationship. Here's a way of dealing with it.
Nov 2023
How To Navigate Relationship Ambivalence (Aka, Confusion and Indecision)
Relationship ambivalence (aka, confusion or indecision) is very common for those of us who have an anxious, dismissive avoidant, or fearful avoidant attachment style. In this episode, I help you understand your ambivalence and give you steps to take on how to navigate these compl ... Show More
16m 41s
Aug 2025
The 4 Stages of Mixed Signals: Which One Are You Stuck In? (Matt Monday)
Mixed signals can leave us feeling anxious, confused, and questioning our worth—whether it’s in the early stages of dating or deep into a relationship. In this epsiode, we break down the four stages of mixed signals, from the “pen pal phase” to the “relationship drift,” and show ... Show More
16m 57s
Mar 2020
Ep. 23 - Should I stay or should I go
<p class="p1">Should I leave the relationship or should I stay? Many individuals come to me confused, doubtful, and full of fear trying to make a decision because they think they'll feel better either with or without this other human. What if I told you, you could make this decis ... Show More
15m 46s
Oct 2024
Does He Make You Feel Confused? Babe, he's playing you...
<p>Find out if you are getting played... no one likes to feel confused, lost, or frustrated while dating so it is time to play smart and identify the green and red flags before you spend months or years with someone who has no clue what they are looking for. As Karla Elia would s ... Show More
8m 21s
Nov 2016
Stop Investing 100% if He’s Only Giving You 50%
<p>Getting a new relationship off the ground can be tough. Pacing is everything, and if one person emotionally gets ahead of the other too quickly, it can cause major problems. In today’s episode, I take a call from a woman named Tiffany who’s not sure how to regain her footing i ... Show More
7m 57s