Yesterday

The Real Reason Why You Think You Need Constant Reassurance

In this week's episode, I'm unpacking why reassurance never seems to stick and why asking for more isn't actually the thing that's going to make you feel safe. One of the biggest mindset shifts I ever had was realizing I wasn't really asking: "Do you love me?" I was asking: "Am I ... Show More

15m 5s

Jul 21

What To Do When Your Anxious Attachment is Pushing a Good Person Away

If you've ever felt like you're pushing a good person away because of your anxiety, or if you're caught in the same argument cycle every few weeks, this episode is a must-listen for you. Whether you're dating, in a relationship, or even married and finding those anxious triggers ... Show More

21m 19s

Jul 14

The Hard Truth: Why You Still Overthink (Even After All The Work)

You know you're overthinking... so why can't you stop? 🤯 You've read the books. Listened to the podcasts. You know your attachment style, your triggers, and exactly why you're spiraling... ...so why are you still spiraling? In this episode, we'll unpack the hard truth that most ... Show More

15m 36s

Feb 2021

173. Greatest Hits Vol 2. Dating, Perfectionism, & Anxious Attachment

Do you lay awake at night obsessing over why a new date or partner took 3 hours to respond to your text instead of their usual 30 minutes? Or maybe you start to feel avoidant when a new partner wants to hang out too much, and worry about losing independence in a relationship? Wha ... Show More

28m 20s

Jan 2021

Is Your Anxiety Sabotaging Your Relationships?

<p>Have you ever felt insecure about something that’s happened with your partner and got yourself worked up in your mind? I have. Many times. And when this has happened to me I know I’ve not brought up the issue in a productive way. In fact, I’ve often approached the subject in a ... Show More

16m 13s

Aug 2024

Don't Let Your Anxiety Sabotage Your Relationships (What To Do Instead!)

<p>There are many ways anxiety can show up in our relationships. When we like someone and worry about them losing interest. When we're waiting for a text back. When we overthink in a relationship. In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about the fears that activate anxious be ... Show More

42m 26s

Nov 2025

The Biggest Fears in Dating (and How to Overcome Them) | Rewind

Why do we get so in our heads when we start dating someone new? In this episode, we dive deep into the most common fears people face in early dating — from getting too invested too soon, to navigating intimacy and exclusivity when someone’s seeing multiple people.With over 1,300 ... Show More

18m 12s

Aug 2025

Stop Overthinking: How to Beat Anxiety in Dating

Anxiety has a sneaky way of showing up in our love lives . . . whether it’s overthinking a text or worrying about someone’s shifting energy. But what if you could stop anxiety before it takes over? In this episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen get personal as they unpack how anxi ... Show More

1h 23m

Nov 2025

209. Why Self-Trust Is the Key to Feeling Safe in Love w/ Sarah Yudkin

Are you overthinking your relationship? Do you ever wonder if it’s love or just anxiety?In this episode, I share my journey from relationship anxiety to building true inner safety and self-trust. I'm joined by Sarah Yudkin, creator of You Love and You Learn, to explore releasing ... Show More

53m 39s

Jun 2022

Will Your Relationship Fail? 3 Questions To Find Out | Matt Monday

Today's episode will help you cut through all of the anxiety, uncertainty, and stress.I go deep on three very specific questions you can ask yourself to determine whether staying or leaving is the right decision for you.I also break down a new model that will help you identify wh ... Show More

24m 34s

Nov 2025

170: ⁠Is It Your Intuition or Anxiety? How to Tell the Difference & Trust Your Gut

In this week’s episode, Sabrina breaks down how attachment wounds can disguise themselves as “gut feelings” and why instinct often gets drowned out by anxious urgency. Sabrina walks through real examples as she uncovers how familiar patterns can trick your nervous system into cal ... Show More

35m 11s

Apr 2021

179. QA: Relationships

Do you tend to make rejection mean there’s something “wrong” with you? Have you ever wondered how to know when a relationship is “toxic”? Do you struggle with a partner who is more extroverted than you are? In today’s Listener Q&A episode, I’ll answer some of your most burning re ... Show More

31m 18s

Sep 2025

160: Why You Keep Sabotaging Love Without Realizing It | In The Trenches

Are you actually seeing red flags, or are your insecurities making you spiral? In this week's episode of In the Trenches, Sabrina Zohar unpacks why so many of us sabotage good relationships by searching for problems that aren’t there. You’ll learn how timing and distance can trig ... Show More

37m 34s

3 Mistakes You're Making That Make You S...