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Jun 25
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Don’t Fell Like The Priority? Listen to ...

Annalisa Bahadur
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We all want to feel like the priority in the relationship but this is often not felt when in a relationship with an avoidant attached person. But is this only with a avoidant attached partner or can an insecure (anxious or avoidant)  attached feel that way with a secure attached as well. This podcast helps to break down a few possible reasons you may not feel that way. 

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