What do therapists mean when they say someone has a "victim mentality"? In this episode, we unpack this flippant term and explore what’s going on underneath it. We recognize that "victim mentality" is applied to several distinct phenomena. We discuss the difference between being an actual victim of harm, using "victimhood" as a protective defense, and unproc ... Show More
Nov 12
What Makes Someone a Specialist?
<p>In this episode, we answer a DM about new grads calling themselves 'specialists' right out of school. We share about what we think the standards are (or should be) to consider yourself a specialist in a specific client population, presenting concern, and/or modality. ... Show More
37m 6s
Nov 5
Working with Clients who Thrive on Drama
<p>Join us on Patreon for bonus content at www.patreon.com/edgeofthecouch or share your thoughts and questions via DM on Instagram @edgeofthecouchpod, email at connect@edgeofthecouch.com, or voice note at speakpipe.com/edgeofthecouch.<br/><br/>We have partnered with Janeapp, an a ... Show More
32m 33s
Aug 29
Fawning: Answering Your Questions With Dr. Ingrid Clayton
<p>In this conversation, host Monique Koven has invited Dr Ingrid Clayton back to answer your questions. They explore the concept of <em>fawning</em> as a relational trauma response, discussing its implications on identity, relationships, and personal growth. They delve into the ... Show More
50m 39s
Jun 2025
Cognitive Psychologist: Break Free from a Victim Mindset | Scott Barry Kaufman
<p><em>What if the greatest obstacle to reaching your potential isn't external barriers, but a mindset in which you see yourself as a victim? </em></p><p>Today, I’m stoked to welcome back my good friend and one of my favorite thinkers, Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman. Th ... Show More
57m 16s