If you’re constantly scanning for signs that someone’s about to up and leave, even when there’s no reason to worry, this episode is for you. We’re talking about: Why you might feel abandoned even when you logically know your partner isn’t going anywhere, How to face your fear and heal instead of spiraling and I’m sharing my personal stories, including one of ... Show More
Jan 13
A Simple Way to Slow Down an Overthinking Spiral in the Moment
If your brain goes from 0 to 100 the second something feels “off” ... if you replay conversations, wait for texts, or feel that frantic “I have to fix this” energy... this episode is for you! In today's podcast I’m walking you through a simple, science‑backed breathing tool you c ... Show More
6m 12s
Jan 6
Why You Get More Anxious the More You Focus on Your Relationship
If you’ve ever said *“I’m gonna be the BEST partner ever and do all the right things”… and then wondered why you still feel anxious, on edge, or like you're constantly spiraling... this episode is for you. Today, I’m breaking down why over-focusing on your relationship is actuall ... Show More
18m 1s
Nov 2024
#164: 5 Unexpected Triggers of the Abandonment Wound
<p>In today's episode, we're talking all about the abandonment wound — and specifically, five scenarios that might unexpectedly trigger your fears and insecurities around abandonment. When we think about the fear of abandonment, we often imagine scenarios where someone ... Show More
23m 19s
Sep 2025
#207: Why You Feel Secure When You’re Single (But Anxious When You Start Dating)
If you’ve ever felt calm and confident when you’re single, only to find yourself spiralling into anxiety the moment you start dating, there’s a good reason for it.In this episode, I share why this shift happens — and why it’s completely normal if you have an anxious attachment st ... Show More
13m 3s
Aug 2024
3 Ways to Deal With Rejection in Dating | Rewind
<p>When it comes to dating, does the fear of rejection stop you from being yourself?</p><p>Whether it’s approaching someone at a coffee shop, reaching out first on an app, or allowing yourself to “let go” whilst on a date, this fear is the very thing that will have you looking ba ... Show More
11m 24s
Jul 2025
#196: How & Why We Self-Abandon in Relationships
If you deeply fear abandonment, there’s a good chance you’ve also been abandoning yourself in quiet, subtle, and painful ways.In today’s episode, we’re exploring how fear of abandonment often leads to patterns of self-abandonment — especially for those with anxious attachment. We ... Show More
19m 8s
Mar 2025
Overcoming Fear: How to stop letting fear hold you back in life
CHOOSING COURAGE OVER COMFORTFear has a way of keeping us stuck—whether it’s fear of failure, judgment, or stepping into the unknown. In this episode, we’re diving deep into how to stop letting fear control your decisions and start taking bold action toward the life you truly wan ... Show More
23m 44s
Sep 2024
Ep. 257 - Reduce fear through learning after a breakup
In this episode, we tackle the paralyzing fear that holds you back from making progress. Whether it's fear of grief, the unknown, or new challenges after a breakup, we explore how understanding the basics and mechanics of what scares you can reduce that fear just enough to take t ... Show More
8m 10s
<p dir="ltr">As humans, we are hardwired to avoid pain at all costs…</p> <p dir="ltr">But here's the hard truth, loves: you cannot avoid being hurt in a relationship. Period.</p> <p dir="ltr">I'm not talking about big hurts; I'm not talking about breaches of trust, intentionally ... Show More
