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Oct 2024

17m 45s

Healing Your Fear of Abandonment

bethathealinggirl

About this episode

If you’re constantly scanning for signs that someone’s about to up and leave, even when there’s no reason to worry, this episode is for you. We’re talking about: Why you might feel abandoned even when you logically know your partner isn’t going anywhere, How to face your fear and heal instead of spiraling and I’m sharing my personal stories, including one of the worst ghosting experiences ever (seriously, it’s bad 😅), and how I learned to face my fear of vulnerability to build a healthier relationship with my now-husband.

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