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May 2025
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How to Bring Back An Ex - Wednesday Live...

Annalisa Bahadur
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Every Wednesday, I have a Live on Instagram where I answer questions sent in by followers on that platform. Here is a recorded copy of it. 

The questions answered are below. You can also catch the recording on my YouTube channel. 

How to bring back an ex in the relationship when she is not ready to come in the relationship with me. 

It’s confusing of what to do when someone comes back after 1-2 weeks. How do I respond?

He says he doesn’t know if he can live without me but says he is unable to connect. What should I do? 

My fiancé dumped me 8 weeks before marriage. He says we are not compatible. What should I do? 

How can you tell why an avoidant reached out after months of no contact? 

Why does avoidant discard in friendships hurt as much as romantic relationships?

How to get true reciprocation from my avoidant attached partner instead of breadcrumbs?

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