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Oct 10
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Avoidant to Secure Navigating a Relation...

Annalisa Bahadur
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It wasn’t easy for her , but Sarah felt like she had no choice but to shut herself away or withdraw from the demands and overwhelm - even if that sometimes came from her children. In this episode, Sarah tells what happens in the mind of a avoidant when they are going through their deactivation and what they think during this time. She also shares how she ... Show More
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