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Feb 2025
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Top Questions About “No Contact” After a...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
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After a breakup, a lot of us know we should go “no contact,” but then all sorts of sneaky questions start to pop into our heads and everything becomes a “What if . . .” What if . . . It’s their birthday? They’re going through a hard time? I run into them? They reach out? I find out they really miss me? “No contact” isn’t possible? I believe deep down that we’re meant to be together? In today’s new episode, I answer 7 of your top questions about going “no contact” so you know exactly what to do during the breakup.


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