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Apr 2025
10m 29s

Stop Performing for Love—Start Being Lov...

Pearlieee
About this episode

If you’ve ever wondered whether people would still love you without the performance, this is for you. In this episode, we’re dismantling the fear of not being loved for who you really are. No more shrinking. No more pretending. No more trying to earn love by being digestible. It’s time to reclaim your worth, stop performing, and start receiving love that actually sees you. Come home to yourself—fully, deeply, and without apology.

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