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Nov 11
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018- How to Choose Yourself After Someon...

Najwa
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Send us a text When someone stops choosing you, it can feel like being thrown away. In this heartfelt episode, Najwa explores the pain of being discarded, the illusion of lost worth, and the deep healing that begins when you finally choose yourself. Timestamps / Chapters 00:00 – The Voice That Says “Choose Yourself” The inner conflict between fear and truth ... Show More
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