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Jun 2025
21m 23s

The Version of You Right Now Deserves Lo...

Lumma
About this episode
This episode is your reminder that you don’t have to be “healed,” successful, or perfect. You’re not a project—you're a person. Whether you're in a mess, in progress, or just figuring it out, you’re still deserving of care, kindness, and softness. We talk self-worth & self-talk baby! 
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