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Aug 26
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006- Stop Wanting the Love of Someone Wh...

Najwa
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Send us a text So many of us carry the belief that we have to earn love. That if we change who we are, give more of ourselves, or abandon our own needs, then maybe, just maybe, someone will finally choose us. But true love isn’t an audition. In this powerful episode of Beyond Words, we explore what it means to stop chasing after the bare minimum. Together, w ... Show More
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