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Sep 2025
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011- Stop Mistaking Being Used for Being...

Najwa
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Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Beyond Words, I explore one of the most painful truths: when someone loves you not for who you are, but for what you give. Together, we’ll unpack how childhood conditioning makes us vulnerable to these patterns, how to tell if you’re surrounded by takers or builders, and how to begin redirecting your energy back to yoursel ... Show More
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037- Your Silence Is Why They Keep Doing It
Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Beyond Words, Najwa talks about the quiet pain of being mistreated by people who rely on your silence. This is for anyone who has been told to “be the bigger person” while being disrespected, minimized, or pushed past their breaking point.We exp ... Show More
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036- Stop Expecting Yourself From Other People
Send us Fan MailWhy do we get hurt by people we trust?Often it’s because we expect others to operate with the same integrity, empathy, and honesty that we live by. But the truth is that not everyone shares the same moral compass.In this episode of Beyond Words, Najwa talks about ... Show More
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035- You’re Not Attached to Them. You’re Attached to What They Represent.
Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Beyond Words, Najwa explores the painful truth that attachment is not always about the person in front of us, but about what they represent: the need to prove our worth, the hope of finally being chosen, and the belief that love must be earned t ... Show More
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