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Mar 2025
35m 50s

How To Stop Comparing Your Current Self ...

Mary Jelkovsky
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Have you ever looked back at an old photo or memory and suddenly felt a pang of jealousy for your past self? Maybe you used to be more motivated, more social, more confident—or at least, that’s the story your brain is telling you. In this episode, we’re unpacking why we romanticize the past and compare ourselves to who we used to be. 
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