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Jan 2025
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7 Shocking Dismissive Avoidant Relations...

Thais Gibson | YAP Media
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In this episode, we dive into the unique quirks and challenges of dismissive avoidant attachment styles in relationships, from their unexpected affection for pets over partners to struggles with planning and eye contact. Join our hosts, Thais Gibson and Mike DiZio, as they share personal experiences and expert insights into how these behaviors stem from childhood patterns and how they affect relationships with friends, family, and romantic partners.


We’ll explore actionable strategies for navigating these dynamics, including how to communicate effectively, set boundaries, and foster secure attachment. Whether you're in a relationship with a dismissive avoidant partner or simply curious about attachment theory, this episode offers valuable tips and a deeper understanding of these behaviors.


Tune in for relatable anecdotes, enlightening discussions, and practical advice on building healthier, more connected relationships.


Timestamps:

00:00 - Intro

03:58 - They’re More Affectionate with Animals

09:11 - They Might Seem Selfish

14:30 - They Can Be Frugal

24:53 - 7-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass

25:44 - They Don't Like Making Social Plans Ahead of Time

39:18 - They Don't Make a Lot of Eye Contact

42:07 - They Can Seem Aloof or Apathetic

47:03 - They Don't Ask You to Meet Their Needs

54:05 - They May Not Be Present in Conversations

1:36:09 - Conclusion


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