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Nov 2024
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Open Relationships, Feeling Alone in Sob...

ALLISON WETIG AND CEARA KIRKPATRICK
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Ep 202: In the catch up segment, Allison and Ceara share life updates about their recent travels. Ceara has spent the last few weeks exploring Thailand, Vietnam and Japan. She shares a pro tip about finding long-layovers to maximize travel experiences. Allison went to Omaha to host an open-buying event at her store and see friends and family. 

In the WWYBD part of the episode, we discuss the importance of vulnerability in deepening emotional intimacy, navigate the complexities of open relationships, and provide insights on being sober at social events. The conversation also touches on the significance of traveling for healing, especially in the face of family disapproval, and offers practical advice for choosing a new place to live. Throughout, they emphasize the importance of self-awareness and making choices that align with one's values and desires.


TAKEAWAYS:

  • Setting boundaries is essential but can be challenging.
  • Traveling with friends can create unforgettable experiences.
  • The importance of asking deep questions in friendships.
  • Stopover programs can make travel more affordable and enjoyable.
  • Experiencing different cultures can change your perspective.
  • Vulnerability is essential for emotional intimacy.
  • Open relationships require clear communication and boundaries.
  • Being sober at social events can still be enjoyable.
  • Traveling can be a powerful tool for healing.
  • Family opinions shouldn't dictate personal choices.
  • Exploring new places can lead to personal growth.
  • It's okay to change your mind about relationships.
  • Life is too short to not pursue your passions.
  • Finding the right living situation takes exploration.
  • You can create your own path, regardless of societal norms.



QUESTIONS ASKED:

  • My partner expressed interest in an open relationship but I’m not sure how I feel?
  • My friends and I are going to a music festival. They all plan to be under the influence but I want to be sober. Should I still go?
  • What to do when your family doesn’t approve of your travel aspirations?
  • I want to move out of my hometown but how do I choose?! The options seem endless.



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