logo
episode-header-image
Jan 2025
20m 6s

S3 EP9 | How to Take Your Relationship t...

The Messy Podcast
About this episode

Welcome to Season 3, Episode 9 of The Messy Podcast!

In this episode, we dive into how you can take your relationship to the next level using The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins. This powerful theory encourages you to value your time and engage in honest conversations with your partner about commitment. We explore real-life examples, such as the story of Matthew Hussey and his wife, to illustrate the theory in action. Additionally, we address common relationship patterns, like chasing after unavailable partners, and how you can break free from these unhealthy dynamics to create a lasting, fulfilling relationship.

If you're ready to take your relationship to the next level, grab your copy of The Let Them Theory today: https://amzn.to/3PTCK6h. To support The Messy Podcast and access more exclusive content, visit us at https://themessypodcast.com.

Key Takeaways from This Episode:

Value Your Time: Learn how to prioritize your time and energy in relationships, ensuring you invest in connections that truly align with your needs and values. Honest Conversations About Commitment: Discover the importance of having open, honest discussions with your partner about your relationship goals and future commitments. Understanding Relationship Patterns: Explore common patterns, like chasing unavailable partners, and how to break free from them to foster healthier relationships. Real-Life Examples: Get inspired by real stories, such as Matthew Hussey's relationship journey, to see how applying The Let Them Theory can transform your love life.

The Let Them Theory

The Let Them Theory teaches you how to release the need to control others and instead focus on understanding your own desires and values in a relationship. By embracing this approach, you learn to navigate your relationships with clarity, authenticity, and a deeper sense of connection.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

How to take your relationship to the next level by having honest conversations about commitment. The importance of valuing your time and energy and investing in relationships that truly serve you. How to recognize and break free from unhealthy relationship patterns, like chasing unavailable partners. Real-life stories that illustrate how applying The Let Them Theory can lead to lasting love.

Ready to Take Your Relationship to the Next Level?

Start today by grabbing your copy of The Let Them Theory and start applying these principles to your relationship: https://amzn.to/3PTCK6h.

For more transformative content and to support The Messy Podcast, become a member at https://themessypodcast.com. We cover top books, Netflix series, and inspiring biographies in our other episodes you won’t want to miss!


Up next
Feb 2025
S3 EP11 | Your Let Me Era Is Here | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | The Messy Podcast
Welcome to Season 3, Episode 11 of The Messy Podcast! In this episode, we dive into The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins and explore how you can take back your power and start living the life you’ve always wanted. It's time to stop letting other people's opinions and actions contro ... Show More
11m 56s
Jan 2025
S3 EP10 | How Every Ending Is a Beautiful Beginning | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | The Messy Podcast
Welcome to Season 3, Episode 10 of The Messy Podcast! In this episode, we explore how every ending can lead to a beautiful beginning, especially when it comes to relationships. Drawing insights from The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins, we discuss how to build stronger, more loving ... Show More
12m 20s
Jan 2025
S3 EP8 | Let Them Show You Who They Are | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | The Messy Podcast
Welcome to Season 3, Episode 8 of The Messy Podcast! In this episode, we dive into how you can finally find the love you deserve by applying the principles of The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins. This theory teaches you to stop chasing love and start choosing it. We’ll show you ho ... Show More
16m 21s
Recommended Episodes
Mar 2025
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Welcome to The Messy Podcast! This episode marks the beginning of our journey into The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins. Over the next few episodes, we'll explore how this empowering book can help you break free from mental roadblocks and unlock your full potential. The Let Them Th ... Show More
11m 8s
Jun 2024
SOG EP 1623 BONUS: The Red Flags You Keep Ignoring! (Don’t Let Men Treat You Like This!!) - Sadia Khan & Matthew Hussey
Have you listened to the FULL EPISODE yet?"If you don't value yourself and you just value a feeling, well, you may as well do a bunch of drugs someday."In this eye-opening episode, world-renowned dating expert Matthew Hussey uncovers the hidden psychological forces that lead us t ... Show More
6m 19s
Oct 2024
How To Create Better Relationships: 6 Surprising Lessons From 28 Years Of Marriage
In this episode, you are getting the 6 secrets to a lasting partnership.You will learn how to make love last and the key to keeping your relationship successful and strong.Today, Mel and her husband Chris dive deep into the most important lessons they've learned in 28 years of ma ... Show More
1h 21m
Dec 2024
The One Tool to Transform Your Relationships: The Let Them Theory
If there’s someone in your life you wish you were closer to, but it sometimes feels like there’s an unspoken tension between you, this episode is for you. Today, Mel sits down with her oldest daughter, Sawyer, for a raw and transformative conversation about repairing relationship ... Show More
1h 38m
Jan 2025
9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Relationships Forever | Jillian Turecki
Renowned relationship coach and author Jillian Turecki delivers a masterclass in understanding the complex dynamics of modern relationships, drawing from both professional expertise and deeply personal experiences. Through raw and honest discussion, she reveals how our childhood ... Show More
58m 45s
Feb 2025
E136 - Jillian Turecki: How To Find Love, Keep Love & Become Love
Relationship expert Jillian Turecki reveals how to overcome the blocks that ruin relationships and begin crafting your love life from within. Jillian shares her personal journey, detailing the pivotal moments of miscarriage and divorce that transformed her perspective on love and ... Show More
1h 13m
Nov 2024
Lori Gottlieb: 7 Answers to Dating Questions You’re Afraid to Ask & How to Break Free from Relationship Timelines
Have you ever felt stuck in a negative relationship cycle? Have you ever struggled with setting boundaries in your relationships? Today, Jay welcomes back a community favorite, the renowned psychotherapist, bestselling author, and podcast host Lori Gottlieb, for an insightful cha ... Show More
1h 23m
Oct 2024
"Why You're SABOTAGING Your Love Life" - The Neuroscience of Attraction Revealed
In this powerful episode of The School of Greatness, I dive deep into the fascinating world of love, relationships, and the human brain with three incredible experts. We kick things off with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart, who breaks down the science behind attraction, bonding, an ... Show More
1h 10m
Jul 2024
The 10 Keys to a Healthy Relationship (2024)
This video reveals the 10 essential secrets to maintaining a healthy relationship that you must know in 2024. Whether you're in a new relationship or have been together for years, these 10 key factors will help you build a strong and lasting bond with your partner. Don't ... Show More
6m 27s
Nov 2024
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships
In this powerful masterclass focusing on family relationships, I sit down with three remarkable guests who share their profound insights on marriage, family, success, authenticity, and personal growth. Best-selling author Melissa Urban shares transformative wisdom about creating ... Show More
1h 19m