This is a common phenomenon that most people with an anxious attachment style will experience if they dated someone with an avoidant attachment style. That is of the Avoidant Attached person suddenly running away after a conflict or breaking up. It can be really confusing for their partner and this episode helps us to appreciate why they do it and what we ca ... Show More
Nov 20
Stuck in a Situationship? How Your Attachment Style Makes Breakups So Hard
<p>She thought everything was fine. Then, he dropped a bombshell/ “I'm not sure I'm in love with you anymore.”</p><p>Trying to be understanding, she gave him an easy out. She said, “It's okay if we need to break up.”</p><p>But he wouldn't take it. He was confu ... Show More
1 h
Sep 23
#207: Why You Feel Secure When You’re Single (But Anxious When You Start Dating)
If you’ve ever felt calm and confident when you’re single, only to find yourself spiralling into anxiety the moment you start dating, there’s a good reason for it.In this episode, I share why this shift happens — and why it’s completely normal if you have an anxious attachment st ... Show More
13m 3s
Sep 28
Passive vs. Rigid Avoidant Attacher: Two Faces of Avoidant Attachment
Not all avoidants look the same. In this episode, I break down the two common ways avoidant attachment shows up in relationships: the Passive Avoidant, who protects themselves by shrinking back, and the Rigid Avoidant, who protects themselves through control and high standards. Y ... Show More
17m 56s
Nov 2023
How To Navigate Relationship Ambivalence (Aka, Confusion and Indecision)
Relationship ambivalence (aka, confusion or indecision) is very common for those of us who have an anxious, dismissive avoidant, or fearful avoidant attachment style. In this episode, I help you understand your ambivalence and give you steps to take on how to navigate these compl ... Show More
16m 41s