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Feb 2024
27m 10s

avoidant attachment style: building heal...

Arasteh
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vulnerability forms the cornerstone of healthy relationships, but it's often challenging for people with an avoidant attachment style to embrace it. in the last episode, we talked about anxious attachment, characterized by the tendency to “chase”. in this ep, we explore the patterns of avoidant attachment, characterized by “fleeing”. let’s uncover practical ... Show More
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