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Jun 2024
36m 35s

How to forgive yourself, after Friend Be...

Janell Roberts
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God, I'm losing all of my friends, while my life continues to elevate. Today we dive deep into what it means to experience betrayal trauma. Often it is easier for people to project their own insecurities onto you, instead of looking inward. Unfortunately, most of us become an easy scapegoat for peoples internalized insecurities. In this episode we dive deep on the importance of learning to forgive yourself after betrayal.

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