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Oct 2025
45m 22s

Can you heal from severe abuse while sti...

Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
About this episode

Some people will deflect blame and make you feel like the problem. In this episode, I dive into this subject by examining a heart-wrenching story from a listener whose partner's jealousy turned violent, leaving her questioning the future of their relationship and her path to healing.

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