In this episode, John talks about how being blindsided by a break up can be more difficult than other break ups, and how to heal from them.
Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as ... Show More
Yesterday
Redefining the Promises We Make in Love
What if the promises we make in love are setting us up to fail? In this episode, John Kim is joined by his wife, Vanessa Bennett, to explore how redefining the promises we make in relationships could change the way we love. Instead of focusing on "forever," they discuss commitmen ... Show More
23m 42s
Jul 6
The Medicine Isn't the Healing. You Are with Sarah Williams
Curious about psychedelic medicine but unsure what it actually does? In this conversation, John Kim sits down with Sarah Williams to explore how medicines like MDMA and psilocybin can support healing, self-discovery, and personal growth when approached with intention, safety, and ... Show More
41m 11s
Jul 2
Therapy Thursdays | Dating Apps, Toxic Love & Commitment Issues
In this Therapy Thursdays episode, John answers your questions about toxic relationships, emotional unavailability, sexting in committed relationships, why it's so hard to leave someone who hurts you, and the difference between being in love and being "in lost." He also shares pr ... Show More
20m 26s
Feb 2019
3 Lessons I Learned From My Ex
<p>Breakups are hard there’s no doubt about that, but sometimes break-ups lead to break-throughs. Don’t worry, it’s normal to have feelings of bitterness, blame, or even have a breakdown. You are not alone.We cover a lot in today’s episode so whether you’re looking to strengthen ... Show More
27m 44s
Oct 2025
How to Find Yourself Again After a Breakup
After a breakup, we don’t just miss the other person — we often miss the version of ourselves we were with them. In this episode, Dora shares how relationships reflect parts of us, why it hurts when that mirror breaks, and how to reconnect with the playful, confident, free self t ... Show More
5m 16s
Aug 2022
#124 Breakups With Unfortunate Circumstances
On today's solo episode, we are talking more in depth about breakups due to unfortunate circumstances (i.e. addiction, mental health issues, relocating, family disapproval). How do you wrap your head around the relationship being great, except this one thing getting in the way? H ... Show More
16m 32s
Apr 2023
Breaking Up With a Trash Talker
Healing from a breakup can take work. There are complicated feelings and getting closure can be so crucial. But moving on can feel like an uphill battle, especially when said ex begins to spread lies. How are you supposed to heal? In this case the phrase, “It’s not me, I'ts you" ... Show More
1h 22m