Sep 29

The Easiest Way to Stop Needing Constant Reassurance

You know when your partner has told you they love you, shown you they love you, and your anxious attachment is STILL like... okay but can you tell me again? 😭 In this episode, we’re talking about why you crave constant reassurance in your relationship and why trying to force you ... Show More

17m 27s

Sep 22

Why Your Overthinking isn’t Changing (no matter how hard you try)

You’ve read the books. Saved the posts. You KNOW you have anxious attachment. So why are you still overthinking everything?! 😭 In this episode, we’re talking about the frustrating gap between knowing your patterns and actually changing them. Because being wildly self-aware doesn ... Show More

16m 21s

Sep 15

What I Told Myself When My Anxious Attachment Was Triggered (that 100% helped)

In this episode, I’m sharing the 3 things I learned to tell myself when my anxious attachment was triggered that helped me stop turning one tiny vibe shift into an entire relationship spiral. We’re talking about why you can’t out-logic your nervous system, why what feels hysteric ... Show More

17m 28s

Jul 2025

149: What Is Anxious Attachment and How It Shows Up in Dating and Relationships?

Struggling with constant overthinking in relationships? Sabrina explores anxious attachment with a focus on neuroscience and real healing. Learn why your brain reacts to silence as danger and how protest behaviors keep you stuck in cycles of anxiety. This episode reveals an under ... Show More

34m 49s

Aug 2025

Stop Overthinking: How to Beat Anxiety in Dating

Anxiety has a sneaky way of showing up in our love lives . . . whether it’s overthinking a text or worrying about someone’s shifting energy. But what if you could stop anxiety before it takes over? In this episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen get personal as they unpack how anxi ... Show More

1h 23m

Feb 2021

173. Greatest Hits Vol 2. Dating, Perfectionism, & Anxious Attachment

Do you lay awake at night obsessing over why a new date or partner took 3 hours to respond to your text instead of their usual 30 minutes? Or maybe you start to feel avoidant when a new partner wants to hang out too much, and worry about losing independence in a relationship? Wha ... Show More

28m 4s

Nov 2022

#34: "What If I Outgrow My Partner?"

Today's episode is exploring the topic of what to do if you want to heal & grow... but your partner doesn't. This can be a really challenging experience, and is particularly common for those in an anxious-avoidant dynamic. Fortunately, this doesn't have to m ... Show More

20m 26s

May 2024

142. [Relationship Series Part 5] How To Stop Feeling So Anxious In Your Relationships

In today's episode, we dive into the topic of inner healing and personal development within relationships, specifically focusing on the anxious overthinker archetype. I talk about my journey of transforming my relationship through self-work and how it positively influenced my hus ... Show More

21m 51s

Aug 2024

Don't Let Your Anxiety Sabotage Your Relationships (What To Do Instead!)

There are many ways anxiety can show up in our relationships. When we like someone and worry about them losing interest. When we're waiting for a text back. When we overthink in a relationship. In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about the fears that activate anxious be ... Show More

42m 26s

Sep 2021

202. Self-Worth, Dating, Rejection & Love: A Conversation with Clara Artschwager

Do you analyze text messages from romantic interests like you’re peering into into a crystal ball, constantly scanning for evidence of their interest (or lack thereof)? Do you feel like your future happiness is completely at the mercy of the dating apps? In this episode, consciou ... Show More

1 h

Nov 2022

How to Stop Rushing + Obsessing Over Your Relationships

Have you ever found yourself obsessing, spiraling, and rushing your relationships? Maybe you've spent way to much time overanalyzing his texts, stalking his social media, or giving a guy way to much mental real estate. In today's episode, I'm going to help you reclaim your inner ... Show More

15m 22s

Aug 2021

312 - This is why they didn't text you...

In this episode, I talk about dating anxiety, the assumptions we create in our minds and how to free ourselves from overthinking while dating. I talk about WHY expectations often don't align, why that's OK and how to calm your anxious thoughts. Get "The New Mindset Jou ... Show More

22m 30s

Jun 2021

#17: Why You're Anxious All the Time

Anxiety is a natural human feeling that we all share. But what if this anxiety is persistent and rooted in people-pleasing, ignoring your own intuition, and "performing" for others approval? And In today's episode, we will be talking about how you can learn how to step into your ... Show More

20m 30s

Does Your Anxiety Make You Think You’re ...