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Feb 18
31m 13s

What Avoidant Do During And After Breaku...

Annalisa Bahadur
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They act like they are over you the moment you breakup and that is crushing. But is that what they really feel? There are lot of "experts" on what avoidant attached person feel during breakups. I have on average 70 avoidant attached people on speed dial and I am sharing what they all say they go through during breakups. It's astounding how they all have the ... Show More
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