Jan 6

Why You Get More Anxious the More You Focus on Your Relationship

If you’ve ever said *“I’m gonna be the BEST partner ever and do all the right things”… and then wondered why you still feel anxious, on edge, or like you're constantly spiraling... this episode is for you. Today, I’m breaking down why over-focusing on your relationship is actuall ... Show More

18m 1s

Dec 30

3 Anxious Attachment Habits That Ruin Your Relationships Over Time

In this episode we’re breaking down the 3 most common (but sneaky) anxious attachment habits that slowly destroy connection over time... even in loving relationships! If you: - Feel like you’re too much or never enough - Constantly overanalyze texts, tone, or timing - Chase close ... Show More

19m 40s

Dec 23

The Fastest Way To Calm An Overthinking Spiral

If your thoughts are spiraling… If you’re checking your phone again… If your brain won’t slow down and it feels like your nervous system is in overdrive… This episode is your quick reset. 🤍 In today’s episode I’m walking you through the fastest and most effective tool I use to c ... Show More

7m 18s

Jan 2025

Overcoming relationship anxiety: navigating intimacy through shadow work

Do you ever feel anxious or inadequate in your relationship, especially when intimacy isn’t present? In this episode, I guide a member from our Codependency Alchemy membership through the shadow work and inner child healing to uncover the core wounds that are fueling her fear of ... Show More

48m 8s

May 2022

Ep 49: Please Calm Down: How to Date With Anxious Attachment

Oh hey, all my Anxious Attachment bitches. How's it going? By "it" I specifically mean dating- not great? Well, that's why I'm here so listen up. Before you know it we'll have you dating appropriate men with confidence and ease. No stalking your phone/ their social media pages ... Show More

29m 11s

Aug 2024

#86 - The Realities of Healing Relationship Anxiety

Have you ever felt like you were not going “fast enough” in your journey to heal relationship anxiety or ROCD? Maybe you’ve seen other people share their wins and felt like you’re just not getting it. It’s easy to beat ourselves up when we compa ... Show More

21m 14s

Aug 2025

Are You Mad at Me? How to Calm People‑Pleasing Anxiety | E465

Have you ever stared at your phone, rereading a text that ended with a period and spiraled into, “Oh no… are they mad at me?” Or maybe someone didn’t heart your Instagram story, and suddenly your nervous system is in full red alert mode. If so, you’re not alone. And you’re defini ... Show More

55m 2s

Dec 2021

Ep 27: Break Up Smarter, Not Harder

On today's episode of the Unf*ck Your Relationships podcast, we're talking about how to deal when you get your heart broken. Whether you were the initiator, on the receiving end, or the series finale was a mutual decision; breakups are tough to handle. All the questions ... Show More

26m 38s

Aug 2024

Don't Let Your Anxiety Sabotage Your Relationships (What To Do Instead!)

There are many ways anxiety can show up in our relationships. When we like someone and worry about them losing interest. When we're waiting for a text back. When we overthink in a relationship. In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about the fears that activate anxious be ... Show More

42m 26s

Nov 2023

#44 - Will I Suffer With Relationship Anxiety/ROCD Forever? w/ Christine

Very grateful to bring you another conversation with a private coaching client of mine, Christine. These conversations are so important for me because I want to peel back the curtain of others who experience relationship anxiety/ROCD to show you ... Show More

51m 4s

Sep 2025

#207: Why You Feel Secure When You’re Single (But Anxious When You Start Dating)

If you’ve ever felt calm and confident when you’re single, only to find yourself spiralling into anxiety the moment you start dating, there’s a good reason for it.In this episode, I share why this shift happens — and why it’s completely normal if you have an anxious attachment st ... Show More

13m 3s

Sep 2021

Ep 12: Connected AF Week - Day Four - How I Went From Feeling Insecure AF to Being in a Healthy and Secure Relationship

In this episode of the Unf*ck Your Relationships Podcast, I am sharing Day three of my Connected AF Week. I'm going to be speaking on how I went from constantly needing external validation and going from man to man to being in a healthy, secure relationship. (hint: it's not al ... Show More

33m 49s

A Simple Way to Slow Down an Overthinkin...