In today’s episode I’m breaking down why your nervous system reacts so intensely to your partner’s mood, distance, or emotional shifts... and more importantly, how to stay grounded instead of spiraling. This one is especially for my high‑achieving, high‑functioning girlies who are crushing it at work… but feel like they’re one unread message away from losing ... Show More
Oct 27
Helpful Reminder if You Keep Thinking “What if” When You’re Triggered
In this episode, we're talking about that awful feeling that your anxious attachment is going to push someone away, and what happens when you're so afraid of being "too much" that you start making yourself smaller. Because there's a difference between having needs, experiencing r ... Show More
16m 36s
Oct 20
What To Do Differently When Things Feel Distant in Your Relationship
You know that feeling when your partner takes a little longer to text back, seems slightly less affectionate, or doesn't send the usual goodnight emoji and suddenly your brain is screaming SOMETHING IS WRONG?! 😭 Babe. I've BEEN there. In this episode, we're talking about what to ... Show More
16m 46s
Oct 13
When You Feel Like You’re “Too Much” in a Relationship
Have you ever worried that you're just... TOO MUCH in your relationship? 😭 Too needy. Too sensitive. Too emotional. Too many questions. Too much reassurance. Meanwhile, you're a fully functioning, independent, successful woman in literally every other area of your life. MAKE IT ... Show More
16m 3s
Aug 2025
Stop Overthinking: How to Beat Anxiety in Dating
Anxiety has a sneaky way of showing up in our love lives . . . whether it’s overthinking a text or worrying about someone’s shifting energy. But what if you could stop anxiety before it takes over? In this episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen get personal as they unpack how anxi ... Show More
1h 23m
Feb 2021
173. Greatest Hits Vol 2. Dating, Perfectionism, & Anxious Attachment
Do you lay awake at night obsessing over why a new date or partner took 3 hours to respond to your text instead of their usual 30 minutes? Or maybe you start to feel avoidant when a new partner wants to hang out too much, and worry about losing independence in a relationship? Wha ... Show More
28m 20s
Sep 2021
202. Self-Worth, Dating, Rejection & Love: A Conversation with Clara Artschwager
Do you analyze text messages from romantic interests like you’re peering into into a crystal ball, constantly scanning for evidence of their interest (or lack thereof)? Do you feel like your future happiness is completely at the mercy of the dating apps? In this episode, consciou ... Show More
1 h
Nov 2022
How to Stop Rushing + Obsessing Over Your Relationships
Have you ever found yourself obsessing, spiraling, and rushing your relationships? Maybe you've spent way to much time overanalyzing his texts, stalking his social media, or giving a guy way to much mental real estate. In today's episode, I'm going to help you reclaim your inner ... Show More
15m 22s
Aug 2021
312 - This is why they didn't text you...
<p>In this episode, I talk about dating anxiety, the assumptions we create in our minds and how to free ourselves from overthinking while dating. I talk about WHY expectations often don't align, why that's OK and how to calm your anxious thoughts.</p> <p> Get "The New Mindset Jou ... Show More
22m 30s
Jun 2021
#17: Why You're Anxious All the Time
Anxiety is a natural human feeling that we all share. But what if this anxiety is persistent and rooted in people-pleasing, ignoring your own intuition, and "performing" for others approval? And In today's episode, we will be talking about how you can learn how to step into your ... Show More
20m 30s