If you're constantly planning, smoothing things over, doing the most in your relationship while low-key wondering “Why can’t they just do more??” — this episode is for you.
💥 If you're a high-achieving, hyper-capable girly who’s exhausted from holding it all together in love, this is your sign to stop performing and start receiving. Period.
👀 In this episo ... Show More
Nov 18
Why Stillness Feels Unsafe When You Have Relationship Anxiety
<p>This week, we’re diving deep into a topic I know hits home for so many high-achieving, anxious girlies: why stillness can feel so unsafe when you have relationship anxiety.</p>
<p>If you ever catch yourself spiraling because the vibe feels “off,” or if a little space in commun ... Show More
30m 24s
Oct 28
How I Accidentally Rewired My Anxious Attachment Into a Secure One
<p>You're not needy. You're just healing! In this episode, I’m sharing how I accidentally rewired my anxious attachment into a secure one...without forcing it, faking it, or labeling myself as “crazy.”</p>
<p>If you’ve ever found yourself wondering:</p>
<p>“Why am I spiraling whe ... Show More
22m 3s
Aug 18
Are You Mad at Me? How to Calm People‑Pleasing Anxiety | E465
Have you ever stared at your phone, rereading a text that ended with a period and spiraled into, “Oh no… are they mad at me?” Or maybe someone didn’t heart your Instagram story, and suddenly your nervous system is in full red alert mode. If so, you’re not alone. And you’re defini ... Show More
55m 2s
Sep 23
#207: Why You Feel Secure When You’re Single (But Anxious When You Start Dating)
If you’ve ever felt calm and confident when you’re single, only to find yourself spiralling into anxiety the moment you start dating, there’s a good reason for it.In this episode, I share why this shift happens — and why it’s completely normal if you have an anxious attachment st ... Show More
13m 3s
Jun 2025
#193: The Gifts of Anxious Attachment
<p>While it’s easy to focus on the struggles of anxious attachment — overthinking, people-pleasing, fear of abandonment — there are also real gifts that often go hand-in-hand with these attachment patterns. When held with awareness and intention, many of the traits we associate w ... Show More
12m 15s
Sep 10
EP 578: 3 Lies You Tell Yourself When You're Dating Someone with Avoidant Attachment Style
Dating someone with an avoidant attachment style can leave you second-guessing yourself, waiting for scraps of connection, and telling yourself stories that keep you in pain. I’ve been there, and I know how easy it is to cling to beliefs that feel comforting in the moment but ult ... Show More
48m 32s
Jan 2025
Inside the Mind of Avoidant Women | Avoidant Attachment
<p>This week’s episode features Jessica Preston who dives into the complexities of avoidant attachment in women, exploring personal experiences, emotional patterns, and the impact of past relationships. </p>
<p>🎙️ Welcome to this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew" with hos ... Show More
1h 34m