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Oct 2025

10m 30s

What REALLY Happens When You Go No Conta...

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If you've gone no contact with your avoidant ex and they still haven't said a word, this episode will tell you exactly what's going on in their mind.

Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks down each stage of what happens internally - from denial to realization - so you can understand why silence works better than chasing.

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