Mar 15

How Secure Attached Breakup with Avoidant

Secure attached people don't beg or chase when an avoidant wants to breakup. They also know when to call it quits...and in this episode - that is what we are discussing. We will discuss...- a secure attached timeline to a deciding a breakup, - how they communicate breaking up- wh ... Show More

26m 9s

Feb 18

What Avoidant Do During And After Breakups

They act like they are over you the moment you breakup and that is crushing. But is that what they really feel? There are lot of "experts" on what avoidant attached person feel during breakups. I have on average 70 avoidant attached people on speed dial and I am sharing what they ... Show More

31m 13s

Feb 2

What to Look For In The First 90 Days Of Dating

I wish someone had told me this when I first started dating. I made so many mistakes that landed me in some questionable relationships. The tips I share here has helped me choose a partner I enjoy life with. I'm breaking down the red flags to look out for, the green ones to pay a ... Show More

1h 20m

Jul 2025

How Avoidant Attachment Can Lead to Selfish Tendencies

We often talk about the emotional distance of avoidant attachers—but what if that “selfishness” is actually a protective coping mechanism?In this episode, I unpack how avoidant attachment can stem from emotional neglect and how hyper-independence becomes a substitute for unmet em ... Show More

8m 19s

Jul 2025

#197: What Avoidant People Need to Thrive in a Relationship

In today’s episode, we’re exploring what avoidant attached people actually need to feel safe and secure in a relationship — and how partners can support that without self-abandoning.Avoidant attachment is often misunderstood — labelled as cold, distant, or commitment-ph ... Show More

21m 38s

Oct 2025

Emotional Avoidance Isn’t Helping You Cope — Here’s Why [Ep 37]

In this episode, I explore emotional avoidance — what it looks like, why it shows up in women with high-functioning anxiety, and how it often ties back to childhood trauma.We also dive into how disconnection from your body keeps emotions stuck</ ... Show More

17m 46s

May 2025

492: Sexual Attachment Styles

Time to head back to school listeners! In this 'School of Love' episode we are defining attachment styles and how they show up in the bedroom. We focus on secure, anxious and avoidant attachment styles and why partners might fall into patterns based on their sexual attachment. Jo ... Show More

33m 25s

Jan 2022

Why Regulating Emotions Is So Hard When You Have BPD

Send a textIn this episode, Kristin shares why we have emotions, what purpose they serve, and WHY it's so hard to regulate them as well as some tips on how to get started with emotional regulation.Like the episode? Be sure to subscribe to the podcast so that you don't miss when a ... Show More

28m 47s

Dec 2024

"How do I support my AVOIDANT partner in opening up?"

You long for more emotional intimacy in your relationship but your partner avoids deeper conversations? This is where we talk about what you can do to support your partner feeling safe! ❤️ Listen to the <a href="https://open.spotify.co ... Show More

51m 43s

Sep 2025

How To Stop Ruminating About Old Relationships & Attachments and Let Go With A Therapy Technique

The APP has arrived! https://studio.com/apps/rebecca If you like the podcast, you will love the Everyday Calm app. It is a daily program that teaches simple skills to reduce stress and anxiety in a few minutes a day. GET IT!Why do old loves still haunt us...sometimes decades late ... Show More

9m 38s

Aug 2024

#56 Understanding & Healing Anxious Attachment with Jessica Baum, LMHC, Psychotherapist

Our early experiences with primary caregivers can profoundly affect our relationships later in life — often in ways that are deeply unconscious — and it takes conscious work to change our patterns and facilitate healing. Psychotherapist, Jessica Baum, joins us today to guide us t ... Show More

24m 53s

May 2025

The Unspoken Pain of Avoidant Attachment

In this episode, we explore the hidden struggles behind avoidant attachment through a candid conversation with someone who’s lived it.We discuss:🔹 Why he resisted change in past relationships — believing emotional distance was a strength🔹 How self-protection became self-disconn ... Show More

43m 49s

Nov 2025

Ep 476: Why You’re Not Feeling Better Yet | The Real Reason You Stay Stuck in Anxiety & Stress

Why You’re Not Feeling Better Yet | The Real Reason You Stay Stuck in Anxiety & StressHave you ever asked yourself, “Why am I not feeling better yet?”You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, tried the coping tools — but somehow, the anxiety or heaviness still returns.In t ... Show More

10m 58s

WHY AVOIDANT ATTACHED PERSON NEED SPACE ...