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Jun 2022
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42 - Avoidant Attachment: Why They Pull ...

LOUISE RUMBALL
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Ever dated an avoidant man or woman? They disappear when conflict starts or a conversation heats up? You feel like you get close to them, but never quite fully there? Maybe you are one yourself and other people feel ‘too needy, too much’, or that being independent and alone is safer and less hectic. Maybe you don't see the point in talking about your feeling ... Show More
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