You know that electric, addictive chemistry we chase? Girl, it’s not love. It’s a nervous system hook. And we all think that if we can just get the avoidant man or woman to settle down, to pick us, to choose us, to see our worth, that everything will be okay. I call this Shiny Object Syndrome (‘I’ll be happy when’)... but today, I explain why 99% of the time ... Show More
Sep 19
225 - My secrets to hack your mornings for your hottest, happiest, healthiest days
Welcome to my D-R-E-A-M Morning Routine that I shared at my sold-out ALO London event. This is the exact framework that got my night-owl, groggy, snooze-button-addicted self waking up with clean energy - no 60-minute morning routines, no perfectionism, no quitting caffeine. We di ... Show More
49m 22s
Sep 22
226 - Eldest Daughter Energy: Why Doing Feels Safer Than Being
Type A women (and often eldest daughters) can do anything except slow down, relax or relinquish control, am I right? Today, Louise and attachment psychotherapist Stephanie Therapy dive into the world of the Type A, eldest daughter woman: always on, always busy, always in control ... Show More
1h 2m
Apr 2024
211 | My Journey With Anxiety And Self Doubt & 4 Things I'd Do Differently If I Was Starting My Inner Healing & Self Confidence Journey Over
Hey sweet friend,I'm so glad you're here. In today's episode I'm going to share about my journey with anxiety, self doubt, people pleasing, and self worth struggles.The journey I walked in my twenties of healing dysfunctional family dynamics from my childhood, lea ... Show More
33m 8s
Nov 2024
245 | "I've been in fight / flight my whole life, now what?!": 2 Psychology & Nervous System Based Tools to Start Healing Your Nervous System so You Feel Less Overwhelm & Anxiety & More Calm & Regulat
Today's episode is for the woman who is realizing that "holy moly, I've spent so much of my life in fight/flight, what the heck do I do now? how do I fix this?"I've been there & so have many of my clients. Today's episode is a love letter encouraging you that it i ... Show More
18m 17s
Feb 2025
From Anxiety & Depression to True Alignment | My Self-Mastery Journey
Have you ever felt so overwhelmed by emotions that you just wanted to escape your own body? I know that feeling all too well. For years, I lived with crippling anxiety, deep depression, and a victim mindset, believing that life was against me. I felt disconnected from myself and ... Show More
35m 34s
Jul 2025
469: Overcoming Codependent Habits
<p dir="ltr">Today, I'm talking about one of my absolute favorite topics…codependency. I've lived this, I've healed from it, and today I'm sharing my personal story of what that journey looked like for me. </p> <p dir="ltr">This conversation was inspired by a thoughtful question ... Show More
26m 33s
Sep 2024
They're Not Into You, So You Love Them MORE (4-Video Compilation)
<p>People neglected as children sometimes spend their WHOLE life longing for love – chasing it, fighting for it, and never having it, all because of an attraction to unavailable people. This includes people who are married and can’t really be with you (but string you along), or p ... Show More
1h 15m
Jun 2024
Don't Let Childhood Trauma Define Who You Are
<p>There’s a big mistake that people who were traumatized as kids make when they’re trying to heal, and unfortunately it can stop your progress. When you're working on healing, there’s a temptation to “identify” as a traumatized person, and focus heavily on what happened to you, ... Show More
16m 32s
Aug 1
Get Out of The Funk Before It Gets Worse With This Simple Therapy Tool: Help for Overwhelm, Overthinking and Burnout
<p><strong>The APP has arrived! </strong><a href="https://studio.com/apps/rebecca" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://studio.com/apps/rebecca</a> </p><p>If you like the podcast, you will love the Everyday Calm app. It is a daily program that teaches simple skills t ... Show More
19m 29s