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Oct 2022
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172. Here's How to ACTUALLY Attract an E...

Beatrice Kamau
About this episode

Does it feel like you’ve become a magnet to every emotionally unavailable, commitment-phobic person in the dating pool? Have you been blaming it on this generation’s idea of dating, the fickleness of dating apps, or just about any other excuse you can come up with?

Bad news: it’s none of those things. It’s you.

Ultimately, it’s not that we’re attracting emotionally unavailable partners…it’s that we’re making ourselves available to them. We’re looking for the first thing that crosses our path, whether that person is truly in alignment with what we consciously desire or not, because our unconscious desires are actually the ones running the show.

How do you escape this cycle? Good news: as always, I’m here to tell you what you need to hear, even if it’s not what you want to hear. Listen now to find out how to find the partnership you truly want.

 

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

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Head over to my website to learn more about how we can work together to shift your energy & transform your life.

 

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