Does it feel like you've become a magnet to every emotionally unavailable, commitment-phobic person in the dating pool? Have you been blaming it on this generation's idea of dating, the fickleness of dating apps, or just about any other excuse you can come up with?
Bad news: it's none of those things. It's you.
Ultimately, it's not that we're attracting em ... Show More
Oct 15
Ep 31. Part 3: The Loudest Boundaries are Unspoken (Don't Take Yourself Lightly)
In Part Three of The Loudest Boundaries Are Unspoken, we discuss how committing to not taking yourself lightly—that is, carrying yourself with high regard—is an unspoken boundary that speaks volumes about how others should treat you. What you’ll learn in this episode: The TRUE, f ... Show More
31m 40s
Oct 8
Ep 30. Part 2: The Loudest Boundaries are Unspoken
In this episode, we explore how to express a boundary without feeling controlling, rude, or as though you’re being “too much.” In Part Two of The Loudest Boundaries Are Unspoken, we chat about managing your attention as a form of boundary—and how people can learn what you are and ... Show More
33m 44s
Jul 2022
45 - You only date or chase emotionally unavailable people, if you are emotionally unavailable too
Constantly chasing after hot and cold men and women? One moment they are interested, the next they aren’t? They say they want to hang out but then they disappear? You get close, then they pull back. This episode is for you - and we have one hard truth to swallow: you only date or ... Show More
43m 28s
Mar 2025
131: Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People
What if the emotionally unavailable people you keep dating are actually holding up a mirror to you? In this raw and unfiltered episode, Sabrina peels back the layers on emotional availability—what it really means, why you keep attracting partners who can’t meet you there, and how ... Show More
37m 13s
Jan 2024
The #1 Way to Get Commitment Without Games or Ultimatums | Matt Monday
<p>Have you ever been stuck in “relationship limbo”? If you have, you know how much it sucks . . . But how can you find the people who are actually ready for commitment, and increase the odds of them wanting it with YOU? The truth is, there are actually people who—like you—are wo ... Show More
15m 31s
May 2022
Ep 50: How to Attract Healthy Love
<p>One of the most common things I hear when working with women is "I just want real love." Dude, I hear you. I know. And sure, to some degree, lots of men are the worst. But, I have news for you- you're part of the problem. </p> <p>Look, it's never fun to identify what we're doi ... Show More
28m 24s
Apr 2023
Why You're ADDICTED to Emotionally Unavailable People (and How to Break the Habit) | Matt Monday
<p>When it comes to the traits we want in a partner, “emotionally unavailable” is never on the list. So why do so many of us end up dating not just one emotionally unavailable person, but a series of them? When someone feels slightly out of reach, our instinct is often to chase t ... Show More
13m 48s