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Feb 2025
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122: Are You Attached or Actually Connec...

The Sabrina Zohar Show
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Ever found yourself obsessing over someone who’s hot and cold, questioning every text, and feeling anxious when they pull away? That’s not connection—it’s attachment. In this episode Sabrina breaks down the key differences between attachment and genuine connection in dating. You’ll learn why attachment is rooted in fear and the need for validation, while re ... Show More
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