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Jun 2024
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SOG EP 1623 BONUS: The Red Flags You Kee...

Lewis Howes
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Have you listened to the FULL EPISODE yet?

"If you don't value yourself and you just value a feeling, well, you may as well do a bunch of drugs someday."

In this eye-opening episode, world-renowned dating expert Matthew Hussey uncovers the hidden psychological forces that lead us to pursue relationships that leave us unfulfilled and heartbroken. With his signature blend of wit, wisdom, and no-nonsense advice, Matthew dives deep into the root causes of our self-sabotaging behaviors in love, offering profound insights that will forever change the way you approach dating and relationships.

Through captivating stories and real-life examples, Matthew reveals how our subconscious beliefs about our own worth can lead us to chase the illusion of value in others, often at the expense of our own well-being. He shares practical strategies for breaking free from destructive patterns, cultivating genuine self-love, and attracting the kind of partner who truly values and appreciates us for who we are. If you're ready to finally break the cycle of unfulfilling relationships and discover the path to lasting love and happiness, this is one episode you won't want to miss. 

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