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May 2025
24 m

Your Search for ‘The One’ Is Why You Fee...

Pearlieee
About this episode

What if the love of your life isn’t one person, but many?
In this video, I explore the myth of “the one,” the fantasy of being saved, and the deep loneliness that stems from chasing romantic perfection. We talk about why so many people feel unloved, unseen, and disconnected—because they’re looking for a cure, not a connection. You’ll learn how to shift your view of love, heal the hunger beneath it, and finally make space for deep, lasting intimacy—starting with friendship.
This is not about settling. It’s about liberating love from the fantasy—and finally seeing it for what it actually is.

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