logo
episode-header-image
Apr 2025
8m 27s

You Don’t Want Love—You Want to Be Picke...

Pearlieee
About this episode

You don’t want love—you want to be picked. You want to be validated. You want to be enough. But true love isn’t something you earn—it’s something you receive without performance. This video is for every person who has chased the emotionally unavailable, confused anxiety for love, and turned connection into a competition. It’s time to stop auditioning and start choosing yourself.

Up next
Jun 16
Things I No Longer Believe
6 Beliefs That Were Ruining My Life (And Probably Yours Too) 
23m 3s
Jun 2
10 Things I Wish I Knew At 20
10 Things I Wish I Knew At 20 
17m 41s
May 27
trying to understand them is why you can't move on
theneurocosmic.com 
8m 25s
Recommended Episodes
Aug 2025
006- Stop Wanting the Love of Someone Who Doesn't Want You
Send us Fan MailSo many of us carry the belief that we have to earn love. That if we change who we are, give more of ourselves, or abandon our own needs, then maybe, just maybe, someone will finally choose us. But true love isn’t an audition.In this powerful episode of Beyond Wor ... Show More
31m 31s
Mar 2023
Are You Trying to be Loved for What You are Not?
<p>A lot of people are trying to be loved for what they are not. Instead, they should look for what they are. In this video, I'll explain how this can be achieved.</p> 
12m 37s
Feb 2023
Watch This if You Want to be Loved for Who You Are
<p>Watch This if You Want to be Loved for Who You Are &nbsp;- If you are someone who says that you “want to be loved for who you are” or who wants people to “love you for you”, it’s time to stop saying that. The reason being that it is nebulous and confusing and not specific enou ... Show More
12m 51s
Sep 2025
stop dating just anyone
take yourself seriously, but having ridiculous standards that are a mirror of what society deems attractive won't get you love.sending you all lots of love and peaaaaaaaace!https://linktr.ee/thezurkieshow 
16m 43s
Sep 2025
011- Stop Mistaking Being Used for Being Loved
Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Beyond Words, I explore one of the most painful truths: when someone loves you not for who you are, but for what you give. Together, we’ll unpack how childhood conditioning makes us vulnerable to these patterns, how to tell if you’re surrounded ... Show More
41m 21s
Feb 2018
132 What is True Love?
"Real love looks like choice: choosing to be in the relationship because you want that person, not necessarily because you need that person." - Terri Cole Learn more about Hello Freedom at terricole.com/132 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices 
17m 34s
Jan 2024
“If you want love then the love has gotta come from you.”
<p>To receive more love in your life you need to give it first by showing up with care, thoughtfulness, and consideration.</p> <p><a href="https://grow.selfimprovementdailytips.com/supercharged-sentence">⁠<strong>Subscribe to the Supercharged Sentence!</strong>⁠⁠</a> Get the one, ... Show More
3m 37s
Mar 2020
4 Truths To Grow Self-Love
Imagine learning a protocol that will help you grow personal respect and self-love? You can't give to the world what you don't have, right? As you love yourself more, you'll grow intimacy with your natural genius, discover your truest powers and honor your highest self. 
17m 9s
Feb 2021
Pick me, Pick me!
There’s a little voice inside of you screaming Pick me, pick me!! Try it out for once. Try listening and choose you always so that you can create a person that you require of someone else. Love on you. I promise you won’t regret it 💜 
2m 25s