Letâs be real: youâre the hyper-independent girlie who gets ish DONE. Youâve got the degree, the business, the receipts. But when it comes to relationships? Your anxious attachment is quietly (or not so quietly) throwing hands in the background. đ
In this episode, Iâm diving deep into what I call the "Donât need anyone but kinda wish theyâd text me first" energy â aka the sneaky link between anxious attachment and hyper-independence. Because yes, you can be both!
If you've ever said: ⤠âI can just do it myselfâ, âI donât need anyoneâ... but secretly want someone to show up for you... đ bb, this episode is for you.
Weâre talking: ⨠The blind spots that keep you stuck in âstrong girlâ mode:
⨠Self-sabotage in love (and how to spot it)
⨠The trap of over-functioning â in relationships AND at work
⨠Why needing support is not a weakness
⨠And how to stop masking vulnerability with perfectionism
Plus, Iâm sharing a few real, raw stories (including the one where I got applauded for leaving my plate out?? Yes. Youâll get it when you hear it.) đ Whether you're dating, in a relationship, or single but spiraling, this episode is a mirror. And itâs time to stop choosing patterns that donât serve the secure, healthy love you actually want.
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