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Mar 2025
22m 32s

When You Want More Effort From Your Part...

bethathealinggirl
About this episode

Feel like you're the one keeping the relationship alive? 😩 You’re planning the dates, remembering the little things, prioritizing them… and they’re just kinda there. So what gives? Are you asking for too much? Are they low-effort or just wired differently? And most importantly—how do you actually get them to step up without nagging, over-functioning, or feeling like you have to prove your worth? I gotchu, bb! Today, we’re breaking it all down:

🔥 Why high-achieving women struggle with feeling like it’s never enough (and why this shows up in your relationships)

🧠 How subconscious programming is keeping you stuck in over-giving mode

💡 Signs you’re acting from a wound vs. a real relationship need

🚩 What to do if your partner’s effort feels just a little too bare minimum

👑 How to communicate your needs without being needy (yes, it’s possible!)

 

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