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May 2025
22m 43s

The Anxious Avoidant Trap And How to Get...

Annalisa Bahadur
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Here’s a story you’ve lived before, even if you don’t realize it yet. You meet someone. The connection is immediate, intoxicating—like a chemical reaction you can’t control. The texts flow effortlessly. The future feels possible. Then, without warning, the shift: one of you pulls back. The other panics. And just like that, you’re locked in the oldest romanti ... Show More
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