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Apr 5
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If You Knew Who You Really Were, You Wou...

Pearlieee
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You tolerate way too much. You put up with things that drain you, relationships that don’t serve you, situations that make you small—because deep down, you’ve been conditioned to believe that this is all you deserve.But here’s the truth: If you truly knew your worth, you wouldn’t accept half of what you do now.Somewhere along the way, you were taught to settle. To keep the peace. To accept crumbs instead of the full meal. And it’s keeping you stuck. This video is your wake-up call—to see yourself clearly, to stop tolerating less than you deserve, and to finally step into your full worth.It’s time to stop accepting the bare minimum. It’s time to wake up.

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