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Jan 2025
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S1 EP3 | Stop Wasting Your Life on Thing...

The Messy Podcast
About this episode

Welcome to Season 1, Episode 3 of The Messy Podcast!

In this episode, we dive into the life-changing principles of The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins, exploring how you can stop wasting time and energy trying to control things that are beyond your control. Learn how to reclaim your power by focusing on what truly matters, and stop letting external factors drain your energy.

Ready to take control of your life and stop stressing over things you can’t change? Grab your copy of The Let Them Theory today: https://amzn.to/3PTCK6h. For more transformative content and to support The Messy Podcast, visit us at https://themessypodcast.com.

Key Takeaways from This Episode:

  • Stop Controlling What You Can’t: Learn to free yourself from trying to manage other people’s opinions, moods, and actions.
  • The Let Them Theory: Understand how the more you let others live their lives, the better your life becomes.
  • Reclaim Your Peace: Focus on what you can control—your actions, reactions, and mindset—and stop exhausting yourself over the uncontrollable.

The Let Them Theory

The Let Them Theory will teach you that your happiness is tied to your actions, not to others’ behaviors or opinions. This simple yet profound shift in mindset will help you stop trying to control the uncontrollable and start living with more peace and clarity. When you focus on your own choices and actions, you reclaim your energy and sense of fulfillment.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • How to reclaim your time and energy by letting go of control over things and people you can’t change.
  • How to redesign your life by focusing on your own actions rather than the behavior of others.
  • Explore the science and psychology behind The Let Them Theory and how it impacts areas like relationships, career, emotions, and stress.

Ready to Stop Wasting Your Energy?

Get your copy of The Let Them Theory and start applying these life-changing principles today: https://amzn.to/3PTCK6h.

To support The Messy Podcast and access more exclusive content, become a member at https://themessypodcast.com. Don’t miss out on our episodes covering top books, Netflix series, and inspiring biographies!


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