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Sep 2025
29m 47s

Why You Keep Spiraling Even When You Kno...

bethathealinggirl
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✨ You’ve read the books. Listened to the podcasts. You could give a TED Talk on attachment styles. So why are you still spiraling?! In this episode I'm talking to YOU, the high-achieving, emotionally intelligent girlie who knows her patterns but still finds herself overthinking texts, replaying convos, and getting caught in the same loop with the same person ... Show More
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