✨ You’ve read the books. Listened to the podcasts. You could give a TED Talk on attachment styles. So why are you still spiraling?!
In this episode I'm talking to YOU, the high-achieving, emotionally intelligent girlie who knows her patterns but still finds herself overthinking texts, replaying convos, and getting caught in the same loop with the same person ... Show More
Nov 18
Why Stillness Feels Unsafe When You Have Relationship Anxiety
<p>This week, we’re diving deep into a topic I know hits home for so many high-achieving, anxious girlies: why stillness can feel so unsafe when you have relationship anxiety.</p>
<p>If you ever catch yourself spiraling because the vibe feels “off,” or if a little space in commun ... Show More
30m 24s
Nov 11
How To Stop Over Giving And Still Feel Like A Priority
<p>If you're constantly planning, smoothing things over, doing the most in your relationship while low-key wondering “Why can’t they just do more??” — this episode is for you.</p>
<p>💥 If you're a high-achieving, hyper-capable girly who’s exhausted from holding it all together i ... Show More
21m 48s
Jun 2025
STOP Doing These 3 Things If You Want Him to Commit | Margarita Nazarenko & Adam Lane Smith
<p>In this conversation, Adam welcomes Margarita Nazarenko, a viral voice of tough love on relationships, for a deep, honest dialogue about anxious attachment, emotional patterns, and why so many women end up chasing emotionally unavailable men. Margarita offers clarity, accounta ... Show More
55m 50s
Feb 2025
417: The Real Reason You’re Overthinking Everything (And How to Fix It)
<p><em>Plus, why overthinking is making you a prisoner of your past ||</em></p><p><br></p><p>Ooooh the curse of OVERTHINKING… we all do it, <em>but do you know why? </em>👀 In this episode, Monica peels back the layers of what’s really happening when you can’t seem to stop spiral ... Show More
40m 19s
Aug 13
Stop Overthinking: How to Beat Anxiety in Dating
<p>Anxiety has a sneaky way of showing up in our love lives . . . whether it’s overthinking a text or worrying about someone’s shifting energy. But what if you could stop anxiety before it takes over?</p><p> </p><p>In this episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen get personal a ... Show More
1h 22m
Jul 2025
#277 Why Your Brain Feels Stuck with Britt Frank
<p>In today’s expert episode I’m joined by Britt Frank—author, speaker, and licensed neuropsychotterapist—who has been on my wish list for ages. We dive deep into the connection between breaking free from an addiction to substances and breaking free from an ex, and Britt so beaut ... Show More
43m 24s