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May 4
5 Reasons You Feel “Chemistry” With the Wrong Person
Why do you keep falling for the wrong person—even when you know better? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the five real reasons we choose partners who can’t meet us, from unresolved childhood patterns to moving too fast when chemistry hits. She challenges the idea of “soulmate ... Show More
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Should You Stay or Leave? The Truth About When NOT to Break Up
Thinking about leaving your relationship? Before you do, Jillian challenges the idea that walking away is always the strongest move. She breaks down when staying—and doing the deeper work—is actually the more courageous choice, and how to tell the difference between a relationshi ... Show More
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Apr 20
You Can’t Make Someone Love You
You can’t convince someone to love you—and the more you try, the more you lose yourself. In this episode, Jillian breaks down the painful truth about chasing someone who won’t choose you, and why holding on hurts more than letting go. She shares how to recognize when a relationsh ... Show More
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May 2025
The Narcissist Decoder: How Midlife Women Get Trapped in Emotional Abuse
If you've ever questioned your reality, blamed your hormones, or been told you’re “too sensitive,” this conversation will change how you see everything. Tamsen sits down with world-renowned psychologist and narcissism expert Dr. Ramani Durvasula, author of the New York Times best ... Show More
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By now, you are most likely aware of narcissistic behavior being grandiose, egotistical and charming. If many of us can describe a narcissistic person, then how do we fall into unhealthy relationships with people that have zero concern for our happiness or well being? If you’ve e ... Show More
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This is a fan fav episdoe. Welcome back to part 2 with Dr. Becky Spelman! If you are highly empathetic, always have an excuse for your partner’s poor behavior, and find yourself dismissing how badly you feel over how bad they’ve had it, this episode is a Must for you! You'll lear ... Show More
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755 Narcissist vs Sociopath: The Essential Guide to Spotting Dangerous Personality Types
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23m 40s
Sep 2025
Can You Really Heal a Trauma Bond? + Why Do Narcissists Cheat? Answering Your Fan Mail
<p><b>Can you really heal a trauma bond—or is the damage permanent?</b> </p><p>This week’s Fan Mail features two powerful questions. The first comes from a <b>YouTube listener</b> who asks: <em>“Is it really possible to break a trauma bond? Even Dr. Ramani says she still struggle ... Show More
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It Begins With You: Hard Truths About Love & Dating w/ Jillian Turecki
Tired of repeating the same relationship mistakes? Relationship coach Jillian Turecki joins me to break down the nine hard truths about love that will change your life. From healing heartbreak to understanding why you keep attracting the wrong people, Jillian shares how true love ... Show More
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Master Relationship Triggers and Take Back Your Emotional Power With Dr. Julia DiGangi
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469 SelfWork: Understanding the Fears and Faces of Borderline Moms
Today we’re focusing on what are termed borderline traits as well as different types of borderline personality disorder.There are many people, primarily women, who struggle with it, without knowing what to call it. In fact, it wasn’t a “diagnosis” until 1980. But that certainly d ... Show More
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Today, Jillian speaks with renowned narcissism expert Dr. Ramani to unpack the true meaning of narcissistic relationships and why the term is often misused. They explore the red flags, the psychological toll of these relationships, and why leaving can feel impossible. Dr. Ramani shares expert insights on healing, setting boundaries, and breaking free from to ... Show More
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<p><strong>What if your patterns didn’t define you, but showed you EXACTLY where you can grow?</strong></p><p><strong>Why do we keep choosing the same people—even when we know better?</strong></p><p><strong>If you’ve felt luckless, stuck, or so far away from the loving partnershi ... Show More
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">How do we learn to own our triggers, stop blaming our partner, overcome jealousy, and heal toxicity in our relationships? </span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">'Emotions are the Google Maps of your relationship', according to t ... Show More
